where would you be?

I'm a little hazy caused by no sleep so try to decipher what I want to impart.

After a breakup, there's like a world of shit you have to go through.But let me focus on one aspect.Try to go with the odds of long time relationships.Like you became a couple in college.(high school is so not likely) So, college. You have friends. She has friends. In the span of your relationship, there's two things that can happen - you got drifted from your friends because of too much attention to HER. Making her the center of your warped universe compromising bonds of brotherhood and male-closeness.The other thing is, your friends became her friends' friends too.Making it one big happy conglomerate of people.The latter sounds like a positive one, ain't it? Here's where the cookie crumbles - you break up. A: your friends are still on a hiatus with you. B: your friends stayed with her coz you're just ONE. O, N, E. Where would you be?

Got you thinking huh. See, you cannot persuade your friends to spend time with you like before because they are quasi-commited to their, even larger demographic. Why settle for less right?

You can try to make new friends. Using them to cover your disappointment and anxiety over the ordeal. Still would not be the same. The thought occurs that they would not all be friends if you did not became together with your "now" EX.

Just a word to wise. Cherish your friends.No compromise.

P.S. - I free-typed this one. No edits.